tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post9022665155703496236..comments2007-03-07T12:30:32.309-05:00Jennifer Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-91405962288328412392007-03-07T12:30:00.000-05:002007-03-07T12:30:00.000-05:00Hi Paul... ohhhhh you are so right! Loving a role or pretense or image isn't near as amazing as knowing and loving the real person! :-) <BR/><BR/>JenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-1395943450995327112007-03-03T20:30:00.000-05:002007-03-03T20:30:00.000-05:00It is more fun to find the other's true self. Sometimes it is buried deep inside and if you can get past the walls...it is awesome.<BR/><BR/>I never understood why we at times feel the need to be so guarded, when there are so many parts of a being to know. <BR/><BR/>Bless you too Jen.<BR/><BR/>PaulAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-9894627034001391212007-03-02T20:58:00.000-05:002007-03-02T20:58:00.000-05:00Hi George... Ahhh you said what i was trying to say! :-) Thank you! Yeah, the more we bring our best self to the relationship, the more the relationship can truly be intimate! We are on the same wavelength for sure! <BR/><BR/>Blessings George,<BR/><BR/>JenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-13611121834580934502007-03-02T20:56:00.000-05:002007-03-02T20:56:00.000-05:00Hi Paul..<BR/><BR/>Ohhhh you are soooooooo right! LOL!<BR/><BR/>I like how you prase it... a fun ride. You are so positive! :-)<BR/><BR/>Wishing you a great day.. jenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-61982397156551250852007-03-01T18:33:00.000-05:002007-03-01T18:33:00.000-05:00Ahh but finding your true self can be quite a fun ride. <BR/><BR/>PaulAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-17227968999034288652007-03-01T17:12:00.000-05:002007-03-01T17:12:00.000-05:00Very well said Jennifer. I have had a similar idea in my mind for a while ... if we want to be with somebody who likes her man to be/act a certain way, should we try and accomodate her? I think we eventually slip up trying to be somebody we are not.<BR/>An even worse scenario ... we all know that many women try and change the man into what their perception of a man should be. Then you are not fulfilling her desires a) because your true self is not the person she wants and b) even if you try to accomodate you will eventually let your guard down.<BR/>Maybe some people can change and be happy ... I believe we should, just as you said, love the person as they are. Certainly you will find aspects of the other person not quite to your liking ... but that's life.<BR/>If it is such a major obstacle then you should be able to see it as such right from the outset and either accept it or leave before getting too involved.<BR/><BR/>Just my 2 cents.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14369924981153052978noreply@blogger.com