tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post883111243488558358..comments2011-11-14T07:59:43.858-05:00Jennifer Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-51592488191852475532011-11-14T07:59:43.858-05:002011-11-14T07:59:43.858-05:00But what if they are just not good enough?how long will u put up with lazy guy ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-72197704249206317372008-06-09T19:18:00.000-05:002008-06-09T19:18:00.000-05:00Hello.<BR/>But if one person is giving their all to the relationship and the is not since he/she feels that nothing else can be done and is pretty much giving up. What do we do? Should the one person continue to make the effort and try and hopefully this will rub off onto the other half?<BR/>Love your blogPnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-458226267213184982007-03-13T18:06:00.000-05:002007-03-13T18:06:00.000-05:00Hi George... you are exactly right! We have to give our best and trust that our partner is giving their best as well.<BR/><BR/>It is lovely to feel that security and have that sort of trust in a relationship... then during those more difficult times, you know you can make it through!<BR/><BR/>Blessings to you George...<BR/><BR/>JenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-68840068331702271232007-03-13T11:24:00.000-05:002007-03-13T11:24:00.000-05:00Hi Jen ... home PC not up and running so I have to read from work. <BR/>You're right, a relationship is 100% in committment. It can be divided into 50/50 blocks for chores but that's about it. The only way people can get into trouble is to "count" and I think we can all fall into that category. For chores ... I did the groceries, laundry and ironing this week and you only did the dishes ... for the relationship ... I give more to us than you do.<BR/><BR/>But if both are giving at their very best possible, then we should not count and compare me vs you. We should learn to be happy or content that we are getting everything that our partner can give.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14369924981153052978noreply@blogger.com