tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post6840510112911364871..comments2012-01-27T05:04:33.968-05:00Jennifer Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-63704392728438203742012-01-27T05:04:33.968-05:002012-01-27T05:04:33.968-05:00People who are suffering from depression should be guided with the help of professionals.Through this, they can be able to cope up with all the things that they might be facing in the future.DUI evaluationhttp://www.aces-counseling.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-79641862124894781452011-07-14T00:56:32.225-05:002011-07-14T00:56:32.225-05:00I strongly agree with you breathless! We are on the same shoes... My Depression started when I caught my husband flirting with his client and until now I can&#39;t move on... I do forgive him for the sake of our son but still I can&#39;t forget... I don&#39;t trust him anymore... I tried to kill my self when I found out about the cheating.. Thanks god he did not allow it to happen... Will I need to seek a help now? Coz I think I&#39;m already paranoid...paranoid wife...noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-73228228835629498352011-07-01T11:27:54.403-05:002011-07-01T11:27:54.403-05:00great discussion. i have a question though, what if the cause of depression is the spouse?<br />most men are insensitive and doesn&#39;t even try to make their partners feel that they&#39;re appreciated and loved..<br />I think this is how i feel...breathlesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09752400869456087867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-29286017873239378342011-02-19T17:36:58.550-05:002011-02-19T17:36:58.550-05:00In my experience marital problems can be a cause of depression, yes I do have a tendency towards depression, but persistent marital problems are really getting me down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-28617019784639299082010-11-30T15:00:42.197-05:002010-11-30T15:00:42.197-05:00Interesting write-up. Have been did you received all the facts from..<br>.<br /><br />--------------------------------------------<br /><a href="http://xiangyan.info/5mg-p-122.html" rel="nofollow">旧金山移民</a><br /> Also welcome you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-49369141681740092762009-12-10T04:39:23.702-05:002009-12-10T04:39:23.702-05:00Depression could give gap to each partners wither in marriage or not. It is very difficult to cope up on managing depression. You can either do things that could harm yourself.<br /><br />It is great and I do agree that with someone who is depress should seek help or treatment.residential treatment programshttp://www.residentialtreatment411.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-12253348806814339742009-04-06T08:33:00.000-05:002009-04-06T08:33:00.000-05:00Hi SadNlove,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for writing! I hope things are a little better this morning!<BR/><BR/>From what you wrote, it sounds like your marriage is pretty good for the most part? But, as you discuss there are still a few issues with the depression.<BR/><BR/>It sounds like he is managing pretty well with an occassional severe moodswing, is that about right?<BR/><BR/>A couple of ideas, first there may be some medication issues. It may be good to have his health care professional check to see if there needs to be any chances there. In addition I would highly recommend your husband continue counseling. A good therapist can help your husband learn how to more appropriately manage those situations that are uncomfortable for him. <BR/><BR/>Now, back to you! (smile) One idea for you may be to prepare yourself for these sorts of outbursts. IOW, when you are having a nice day with your husband have a discussion on how you both will manage when things get difficult. Come up with a plan. Acknowledge that there are times where some tension arises and figure out the best way you both can handle them. It may be that your husband decides to go watch TV for an hour then will come back and dicuss the issue. Or it may be that you can both take fifteen minutes to calm down then talk about it, or maybe you will decide to go have a cup of tea and take a walk... or whatever. The point is, if a couple has a plan and know in advance how to manage the difficult times, they get through them without the crisis.<BR/><BR/>Does that make sense?<BR/><BR/>My best wishes to you sweetie...<BR/><BR/>JenniferJennifer Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-70613009733918924352009-04-05T20:44:00.000-05:002009-04-05T20:44:00.000-05:00Hi, my husband and I have been working through his depression for about 6 months. He is on medication, which he takes, and we saw a counselor for a few months. He seemed back to his old self for the past few months. We have had a few stressful things happen and he handled them fine. Recently my mom has started dating someone my husband doesn't like. He told me he didn't want anything to do with them and not to bring him up. I haven't. Today my sister unknowingly mentioned that my mom's boyfriend was back in town. He made a very rude comment about my mother and it upset me. I left the room. He came in and told me if I didn't like it he would pack his bags. I asked him if that was all i was to him, someone he could walk away from after a disagreement. He said he is going to go to work and bring me his paycheck and stay locked in his T.V. room everyday. Because his money is all he is good for. I do not understand why he gets so upset so quickly and so strongly. Every other area of our lives is really good. We had a great day, before this. We slept in together shared a happy lunch, and watched our favorite shows. Or sex life is wonderful and we are usually like very close friends. He is sitting in his room with the door locked right now and I feel alone and scared and very very sad. Does there come a point when enough is enough and I should be able to let go? I love him so much. I do not know what to do.sadNlovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18226796203267396255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-73913177319538006982008-06-21T02:28:00.000-05:002008-06-21T02:28:00.000-05:00Its better for one to be unmarried until he/she recovers from mental illness.If they got married they will feel difficult to experiance the joyness. They often get depressed for little things.As you say depression has its impact on marriage.<BR/><BR/>______<BR/>Paul_allan.<BR/><BR/>Dual Diagnosis <BR/><A HREF="http://www.dual-diagnosis.net" REL="nofollow">Dual Diagnosis </A>paul_allanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10608740914974071961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-35337551532278845422007-06-01T09:40:00.000-05:002007-06-01T09:40:00.000-05:00Hi George...<BR/><BR/>You are so right!<BR/><BR/>When depression gets so bad that hope is gone, it is difficult to work on one's one life let alone a relationship.<BR/><BR/>I'm so thankful you are alive and well! :-) <BR/><BR/>You are an inspiration for sure!<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/><BR/>jenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-6691645532791133092007-06-01T09:39:00.000-05:002007-06-01T09:39:00.000-05:00Hi Technobabe...<BR/><BR/>Great! I think the more folks realize that depression can be a big factor in a struggling marriage the better!<BR/><BR/>Lots of love,<BR/><BR/>JenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-60174109033451672942007-05-31T19:38:00.000-05:002007-05-31T19:38:00.000-05:00Thank you Jen. <BR/><BR/>I had been separated for 2-1/2 years went I took a nosedive down the depression highway. It is so incredible difficult to get better when you want to die ... I can't imaging what it must do to a couple.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14369924981153052978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-42964742076517329942007-05-31T08:09:00.000-05:002007-05-31T08:09:00.000-05:00This is a very important post and I want to copy it into my blog too. This is something I can attest to and am working on in my life. Thank you so much for your clear, kind, informative post.TechnoBabehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09766467206051915855noreply@blogger.com