tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post1989984879266038762..comments2011-11-14T18:01:36.006-05:00Jennifer Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-31836964597955389192011-11-14T18:01:36.006-05:002011-11-14T18:01:36.006-05:00i seem to be on the wrong track as i give my wife practical gifts only, a hammer, screwdriver...Priligyhttp://www.purepills.net/index-es.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-12378316318208552072011-03-04T17:11:28.625-05:002011-03-04T17:11:28.625-05:00i have found this one funny - always put her first... even before basketball - that&#39;s an easy onePillenhttp://www.pillen-die-fliegen.com/Home.aspxnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-78557812960461258752010-11-23T20:27:50.872-05:002010-11-23T20:27:50.872-05:0025 point might be too many to remember but it is well compiled. just be yourself the same you as beforeDapoxetinehttp://www.medikamente4u.eu/viagra-super-force-kaufen.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-67896086590006874092010-01-09T03:56:46.519-05:002010-01-09T03:56:46.519-05:00Just wanted to thank you for the awesome tips! Thank you so much! I&#39;m also teaching people <a href="http://www.howtostaymarried.net/how-to-stay-married" rel="nofollow">How to stay married</a> now, just a side project from my accumulated years of experience and thought of sharing it with those who needs help!Phillip Landryhttp://www.howtostaymarried.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-81164745242279759072008-11-22T15:47:00.000-05:002008-11-22T15:47:00.000-05:00Hi Anonymous (11-22)<BR/><BR/>Thanks for dropping in! :-)<BR/><BR/>It seems people have missed my little note at the bottom of the article, and have failed to notice that I did not write the article but share it as a collection of nice ideas to help a marriage.<BR/><BR/>In other words, every tip may not appeal to everyone and not every tip is going to help a relationship.<BR/><BR/>The author gave some ideas that may help... if something doesn't fit then disregard it. :-) By all means I'm not suggesting this is the perfect list for all couples. Notice my introductory note at the beginning of the article suggesting it may be nice to pick one or two ideas that may improve or benefit your relationship?<BR/><BR/>Also, IIRC, there are only three or four tips that are primarily directed for women, most are pretty gender neutral, meant for the relationship as a whole. I noted this at the end of the article just to be clear. :-)<BR/><BR/>But again, this list was not posted as the end all difinitive list for everyone in the world.<BR/><BR/>Conversely, it was one post in a collection of hundreds that offer some ideas.<BR/><BR/>Now, in terms of marriage, (smile)it is true that marriage requires work. It is not easy, simple, eternal bliss. It does require a lot of determination, dedication, and growing. There are highs and lows, sacrifice and challenges.<BR/><BR/>I won't argue with you on this. :-)<BR/><BR/>I believe that if someone thinks marriage is not worth it they should not go for it. Marriage is not for everyone.<BR/><BR/>But for those who want to have a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship I hope to offer some ideas, techniques, and hope.<BR/><BR/>Thanks again for your comments... lots of luck to you!<BR/><BR/>Warmest wishes,<BR/><BR/>JenniferJennifer Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-34173467631012221552008-11-22T12:15:00.000-05:002008-11-22T12:15:00.000-05:00Look, I'm one of those relatively few unmarried men who actually cares enough about having a happy marriage in the future to read things like this that women write. <BR/><BR/>But you have illustrated why I am increasingly certain that I will never bother with marriage. The fact is, plenty of these things are simply not naturally interesting for men - they are something that take a lot of drudgery. Why would I want to take that on? What would I get out of it? Every time a woman writes one of these "__ tips for a happy marriage", what they really mean is "__ ways to make your wife happy beyond what any woman has ever had in the history of humankind". Why don't I ever read anything about what women are supposed to do? Why does every list of suggestions for a happy marriage act as though it is SOLELY a man's responsibility?<BR/><BR/>Put another way, how would you feel if you reversed the gender roles on your list? Somehow it wouldn't seem so appealing. This post simply shows the dominance of feminism today. Keep demanding this, girls, and more and more of us guys are actually going to start checking out. Is that what you want?<BR/><BR/>Until women start to realize that 1) marriage does not come as naturally to men (i.e. we prefer basketball to spending time in Hallmark stores), 2) women are more relational and therefore desire marriage more than men, and 3) women therefore have to make compromises too, women should get used to growing old alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-77333527191607585502008-11-11T20:19:00.000-05:002008-11-11T20:19:00.000-05:00Ok, lets try this again. Does this sound sexist to you?<BR/><BR/><BR/>1. Always put him first - before work, friends, even<BR/>shopping. Act as if he's the best thing that ever happened to you, because we all know he is.<BR/><BR/>10. Always listen to his heart; if you're wrong, say you're sorry; if you're right, shut up.<BR/><BR/>The other ones are less conspicuous, but many are just as selfish and malevolent. <BR/>(to be fair, some are very sound advice as well however)<BR/><BR/>Lets not forget others for the sake of ourselves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-35586094076244171922008-09-29T22:49:00.000-05:002008-09-29T22:49:00.000-05:00It's great except for #7. You assume far too much of faith. Faith is, in fact, damaging to a relationship because instead of actually doing something to resolve a problem, someone would pray. And then nothing happens and the problem gets worse, and the relationship falls apart, the person thinks that "God" doesn't want them to be together or something like that, and they don't even begin to question whether their praying actually did any good, or whether there is a "God" there to even listen.Scotthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03455763554035136143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-76667838616860976952008-09-29T22:20:00.000-05:002008-09-29T22:20:00.000-05:00Great list and good advice but ladies, don't forget that your guy needs a lot of that stuff back too. That would be why I am single ^_-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-51601865194274773272008-09-29T17:58:00.000-05:002008-09-29T17:58:00.000-05:00Can it get more sickly? Some sound advice, but so sugar wrapped its almost indigestible!Animushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00921720271211524254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-2886054641346903222008-09-29T14:14:00.000-05:002008-09-29T14:14:00.000-05:00Great article.Bunny got Bloghttp://bunnygotblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-37045710016255553502008-06-17T00:58:00.000-05:002008-06-17T00:58:00.000-05:00To maintain a good marriage is like an art. You need practice and lots of trial and error to make a relationship work. If one person runs out of patient or interest before their relationship has the chance to recover, that romance is more likely going down the hill.Sherry@sherrylove.nethttp://sherrylove.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-78657673244517575702008-06-13T09:34:00.000-05:002008-06-13T09:34:00.000-05:00Oh dear this is the very reason why we don't get well with my husband. He forgets he got a wife.Shirleyhttp://love-a-date.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-69521600423657286072008-06-11T19:52:00.000-05:002008-06-11T19:52:00.000-05:00what a great list! all i have to say is i have a lot to learn.sean808080www.sean808080.comnoreply@blogger.com