<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post1096396914820964599..comments</id><updated>2011-11-19T21:15:15.922-05:00</updated><category term='articles'/><category term='healing relationships'/><category term='responsibility'/><category term='songs'/><category term='attention'/><category term='books'/><category term='renewing the relationship'/><category term='Universe'/><category term='garden'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='falling out of love'/><category term='negativity'/><category term='Menopause'/><category term='forgiveness'/><category term='Trust'/><category term='Fear'/><category term='sexual incompatibility'/><category term='evolution'/><category term='hope'/><category term='Creativity'/><category term='Pornography'/><category term='practice'/><category term='challenges'/><category term='great relationships'/><category term='emotions'/><category term='Therapy'/><category term='porn'/><category term='memories'/><category term='Top Ten Needs'/><category term='cyber relationships'/><category term='couples'/><category term='cheating'/><category term='affairs'/><category term='Sex'/><category term='how to stay married'/><category term='temptation'/><category term='anger'/><category term='transitions'/><category term='Communication'/><category term='online relationships'/><category term='dating'/><category term='happiness'/><category term='Confidence'/><category term='Risk'/><category term='Top Ten Tips'/><category term='balance'/><category term='Listening'/><category term='Soul mates'/><category term='Quiz'/><category term='romance'/><category term='sharing'/><category term='tech'/><category term='positive changes'/><category term='counseling'/><category term='advice'/><category term='research'/><category term='acceptance'/><category term='dedication and determination'/><category term='divorce'/><category term='Intimacy'/><category term='giving'/><category term='About'/><category term='growth'/><category term='music'/><category term='goals'/><category term='relationship rut'/><category term='gratitude'/><category term='changing yourself'/><category term='love letters'/><category term='Laughter'/><category term='Apologizing'/><category term='great blogs'/><category term='Touch'/><category term='commitment'/><category term='respect'/><category term='Rumi Quote'/><category term='kindness'/><category term='words'/><category term='priorities'/><category term='sex addiction'/><category term='exercises'/><category term='Do you have a question?'/><category term='Needs'/><category term='being present'/><category term='my most important post'/><category term='quotes'/><category term='loneliness'/><category term='love'/><category term='health'/><category term='Equality'/><category term='appreciation'/><title type='text'>Comments on The Art of Intimacy: Forgiveness  and Intimacy</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/feeds/1096396914820964599/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html'/><author><name>Jennifer Jones</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_kT9yRiEqelE/R_A7Du1Xq1I/AAAAAAAADSk/1JwWbUtVyWQ/S220/jen.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-7884334894291945636</id><published>2011-11-19T21:15:15.922-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-19T21:15:15.922-05:00</updated><title type='text'>anonmyous. If you get this message. You should nev...</title><content type='html'>anonmyous. If you get this message. You should never have allowed that to go ön for ten years. Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship, its a deeper way to share your whole self with another human being. I don&amp;#39;t know who you are and i may never meet you but you do not deserve to be treated that way. You should find a man or a partner who can love you for yourself and provide you with the love that you desire. If you want children do not deny yourself it the best thing that can happen to a humanbeing. Love amy jane x</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default/7884334894291945636'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default/7884334894291945636'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html?showComment=1321755315922#c7884334894291945636' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-1096396914820964599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/posts/default/1096396914820964599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-3662657'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-3188185556230518820</id><published>2011-05-19T19:01:05.585-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-19T19:01:05.585-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ive been in a relationship for almost 12 years,10 ...</title><content type='html'>Ive been in a relationship for almost 12 years,10 years ago my partner stopped having sex with me.He said I did nothing for him.I loved him and thought hed change his mind so I stayed.Since then at least once a year Ive broke down and still to the same responses like sex is for recreation only,or If you need to get f.... go find someone else.He had alot of anger when Id bring it up.Im not a perfect person but i gave love and asked for little in return.A few years ago I found out he cheated on me,with someone I had suspected he was involved with years before but was told nothing happened.Current time about two months ago,I almost left him and he now says he wanted to be with me but didnt think I wanted him.??I only practically begged and cried at least once a year for the past ten.We ended up having sex only once and now I dont feel like I thought I did.Ive been waiting so long for it to happen,now that it has it doesnt feel right.We have lived like friends for years and anymore It doesnt even feel like a friendship.Is there any hope for this relationship or getting back all the years lost?Im almost 40 and childless.He doesnt want anymore children.I told him its ok but is it really? Am I just denying myself to suit his wants and needs?Told him i would try but havent been able to keep the pace and he says Im regressing.Dont know what to do any thoughts for me?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default/3188185556230518820'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default/3188185556230518820'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html?showComment=1305849665585#c3188185556230518820' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-1096396914820964599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/posts/default/1096396914820964599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1164684492'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-5567946930304585459</id><published>2011-03-08T02:20:04.552-05:00</published><updated>2011-03-08T02:20:04.552-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi I&amp;#39;d just like to comment how much I love th...</title><content type='html'>Hi I&amp;#39;d just like to comment how much I love this article and I really agree with every word. I&amp;#39;m actually was just browsing about intimacy for an article but this article made me reflect on my own relationship. I always tell my befriend &amp;quot;You know I can&amp;#39;t stay too mad at you, I love you. I&amp;#39;m patient for you cause who else will be than the person who truly loves you.&amp;quot; He usually feels sincerely sorry and proves it in actions. Thanks for this article. Feel free to email me. You seem interesting to talk to. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;email:crazydrawergirl@yahoo.com</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default/5567946930304585459'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/1096396914820964599/comments/default/5567946930304585459'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html?showComment=1299568804552#c5567946930304585459' title=''/><author><name>Nikki Toong</name><uri>http://www.fantasyartcentral.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.theartofloveandintimacy.com/2007/02/forgiveness-and-intimacy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240135571858542479.post-1096396914820964599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3240135571858542479/posts/default/1096396914820964599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1855516220'/></entry></feed>
