How Committed are You?

If there is one thing in common with successful marriages, it is that the couples decided they would do whatever they could to keep the marriage alive and healthy.

Put another way, these couples decided they would make a successful and happy marriage a priority in life!

Research has found that couples who are deeply committed are more likely to remain together than those who view marriage as temporary, or who feel comfortable ending the relationship if it is no longer fulfilling.

What we know is that if marriage is viewed as something that can end if it is not happy, the couple is less likely to do the work to make their marriage a success.

In other words, these couples decided that rather than divorce when things got tough, they would find a way to move beyond the problems; to overcome the challenges.

So, the question is... how committed are you?

Some questions to ask yourself....

Do you spend more time on the internet with strangers than you do your spouse?

Do you spend more time with co-workers than your partner?

Is your job, volunteer work, yard, sporting event, household projects, or any other pass time more important than your relationship?

How much time do you invest in making your marriage successful compared to the time you invest in watching television?

Does your spouse know by your actions that he or she is valued more than your job or the latest video game?

Is it clear by your actions and behaviors and energy investment that your relationship is a top priority in your life?

If your marriage is struggling, it may be a good idea to recommit and reevaluate your priorities.

If your marriage is dull, boring, and in a rut, you may find that by recommitting and investing more into your relationship, that spark can rekindle and your relationship can come alive again!

How committed are you?