Religious Differences in Relationships - Can it Work?

Can a couple with different religious beliefs have a successful relationship?

Yes! No question about it. It happens all the time.

Now, it is true that some religions prohibit such a partnership, some religions have strict admonitions discouraging such a relationship, and some people believe it is wrong to engage in this type of partnership. These strong believers may feel uncomfortable with their partner believing differently. In these cases one may not want to be with someone who does not share her/his beliefs.

But, it is also true that people change, discover new ideas, expand their hearts and minds and ultimately may change or alter their beliefs.

This does not mean an end to the relationship. Not by a long shot, unless the couple decides they do not want to be married or continue the relationship.

If however, two people are committed to their marriage, determined to overcome and work through their challenges, there is certainly reason to be optimistic and positive.

Long term intimate relationships are not static. People typically grow, change, learn, and mature, and with these changes comes the need for adjustments and revisions. This is healthy, normal, and appropriate.

If a non-religious person discovers belief, OR, if a religious believer lets go of belief or changes belief, the belief, or lack thereof, is not as important as is the commitment, determination, and dedication, to one's spouse. If love, care, compassion, and emotional intimacy are the focus, if a couple decides they will work through the changes, the relationship can survive and thrive.

Religious differences or changing beliefs may be one way a couple experiences challenges but as with all difficulties, two people, working together can move beyond the trial and have a beautiful and fulfilling relationship.